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January 31, 2006
Question: hey...basically ive been dating this girl for like a month...we had sex on our first night together and now all she wants is sex. Shes somewhat of an alcoholic and she cant be drunk around me without sex coming into play. . . . [descriptive text deleted by wizard] . . . Its way outta hand. Also i said i love you once and i cant spend a minute without her saying i love you back. U know how that is, once u start u cant stop....sadly....why are women so difficult...i dont love her anymore, its getting really annoying, should i dump her? Also i dont wanna screw things over becuz shes a cool person, although we hang around the same people i dont want to dump her too harshly becuz then every1 i hang out with will hate me and my social life will be...for lack of a better word...OWNED!
ANSWER: Simply dump her nicely. It may seem that a dump cannot be simple and that simple is never nice. The wizard understands this but emphasizes that a dump can be both nice and simple, and if you complicate it you make it not so nice.
You’ve only been dating a month. KNOW THIS: She will find another guy who satisfies her just as much as you did.
You surely are not and never will be owned! Be friendly but not lovey–dovey. Your friends should respect your clarity and decisiveness. If they were in your shoes, they’d expect respect the same way.
Wizard
January 31, 2006
Question: i really love my gf and really want to be with her but lately it doesnt seem like she wants to be with me. Plus, she is always hanging around with other guys that are supposedly just friends. Should i dump her?
ANSWER: Doesn’t look good. Instincts like this are often accurate. You should talk to her about it, but expect to be disappointed.
Wizard
January 15, 2006
Question: hi ive been goin out with this girl nearly half a year and there’s rumors that she has got off with another boy and she is always lying to me. i want to dump her but i cant because i love her too much but all she does is make me upset
shall i dump her??
ANSWER: Sounds like an eventuality. You dump her when you feel you should. If you still love her, you are willing to give her more chances to improve things. But surely, if the rumors are true, and if she continues to lie, you will conclude that she must be dumped.
Wizard
January 3, 2006
Question: i'm dating a girl from my town. we've been dating a year and she's great and our families are pretty close. my parents love her and she's a good person but lately things have been awkward between us. now during the last summer i met another girl that lives 4 hours away. we've talked on the phone tons of times and we're (to the best of our ability) dating. it's really hard to keep up the charade and i really love this girl that lives farther away more. how do i dump my at home girlfriend that things are awkward with but i have a history with her and her family.
ANSWER: You should not feel intimidated by her family. They have dated, too, and the wizard is sure they know how these things go. You should simply talk to her, nicely and gently, and let her know that while you have enjoyed good times with her, you think that things have been awkward between you as a dating couple – but you think the awkwardness would go away if you were just friends.
Of course she is not known to the wizard. Only you know her. But you should talk to her in the best way you can. Getting the message to her is important.
Wizard
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